Tuesday, July 18, 2017

When You Feel Like Giving Up

We've all reached that breaking point at one time or another; the mountain you're climbing starts to feel endless and you begin to wonder if there is any point in continuing to climb. It seems that it would be easier to just stop and camp wherever you are. You need to rest.

Are you feeling this way? Are you just absolutely exhausted? Please hear my heart today, friend. Don't give up. I know it's tempting and I know it seems easier, but Jesus is waiting with arms open wide to give you that rest.

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 
~Matthew 11:28

The Lord replied, "My presence will go with you and I will give you rest."
~Exodus 33:14

My should finds rest in God alone; my salvation comes from Him. He alone is my rock and my salvation; He is my fortress, I will never be shaken.
~Psalm 62:1-2

My flesh and my heart may fail, but God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever.
~Psalm 73:26

Whoever dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
~Psalm 91:1

Return to your rest, my soul, for the Lord has been good to you.
~Psalm 116:7

He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.
~Isaiah 40:29-31

I'm the world's worst about neglecting that rest. My mind automatically wants to bear the title of Wonder Woman and do everything for every body and I think that's a pretty common struggle. But we can only keep it up for so long and then when we reach that breaking point, instead of realizing we are so unbelievably tired because we've been trying to do it all on our own, we just want to give up. So friend, I am here to remind you today that you are no quitter.

I know you may be exhausted. You may be feeling down on yourself and wondering what else you could possibly have to give. You. Are. Priceless. You were bought at a price that could only be paid by the Most High King and He paid it because He loves you. 

The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.
~Exodus 14:14

Friend, I don't know what mountain you're climbing; I don't know what battle you are fighting; but I do know that you don't have to do it alone. You can rest in peace knowing that the One who has already conquered the world is fighting for you. So instead of giving up, give it to Him. Let Him fight for you. Crawl into His loving arms and rest awhile. 

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Thursday, July 6, 2017

Innx Non-Slip Quilted Waterproof Cargo Liner *Review*

I love our sweet little Schnauzer, August, but sometimes he likes to get messy and sometimes he likes to leave his hair behind like a trail of bread crumbs which isn't always the best look for my car. 

The Innx Non-Slip Quilted Waterproof Cargo Liner is here to solve that problem for the back of our vehicle. Now, normally August rides up front but there have been times that we have gone to the park and he's found some mud or water to get into and I wasn't exactly thrilled about him sitting on my lap  or my seats (or even the floor for that matter) and I would find myself scrambling to wrap him up in a towel and trying to keep him from wriggling out of it. 

I've thought about trying a cargo liner before, but they looked like a pain to put in and I just haven't taken the plunge to get one and try it. I was super surprised at how easy it was to install the Innx Liner. You simply wrap the straps around the headrests of your back seat and adjust them so that the liner is the correct height for your vehicle. Then you place the velcro from the sides onto the sides of your cargo space and that's it. It's seriously that easy and took me about two minutes total.

This product is well worth the price and is quality material that is apparently comfortable as well because August made himself right at home as you can see.

I love that it has extra length for you to pull down over your bumper to prevent little claws from scratching your bumper as they jump in. As I was installing this I realized that not only is it great for protecting my car from a little furball who has gotten into water or mud, but it was also be great for him to relax on when we visit our local drive in theater. 

*I received this product in exchange for an honest review via Tomoson.com. All opinions expressed in this post are my own. 

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Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Why Are We Afraid to be Broken?

Broken. Sometimes it almost feels like that should be a forbidden four letter word. 

Imagine with me that you're a 19 year old young woman. You're sitting in church and you can feel that your stomach is about to growl and break the silence. You think of something to say so that you can try to cover the sound it makes as it rumbles. Someone makes a joke and you start to laugh and get light headed. You can't remember when you ate last.

You're in a room full of people, and yet, you feel completely alone. The secrets you're hiding are suffocating and you feel like you're drowning. If you could just tell someone, maybe you could get some relief; maybe you could get some help.

But you can't tell anyone that you don't eat. You can't tell them that when you do, you race to the bathroom to get rid of it. You can't tell them about your frequent trips to the gym or how many times you step on a scale each day. 

One day you can tell them. You can tell them when you're better; when you have a story to tell about how God delivered you from this vicious cycle that consumes your life. But not now. What would they think of you?

So for now, you plaster on the smile. You sink into your oversized sweater that you hope covers your secrets and your pain. You push the pain and the hurt a little deeper because no one wants to see that; you'll tell them about it when there is a happy ending. And you pray that one day there is a happy ending so that you can let it all out. Then you sigh, wanting to believe that this isn't forever, but unable to imagine life any differently.

Church, why are we so afraid to be broken? We've got to do better. We are supposed to be a safe place, and yet, hurting people so often don't feel safe sharing their pain and their hurt. I dealt with this for so long. It's part of the reason I waited so long to finally get the help I needed. Praise God that He placed me with a group of believers who were a safe place. But that doesn't happen often enough. Too many people are afraid to show their brokenness and we've got to start working to change that.

So, how do we become a safe place? Start with being authentic. Stop trying to act like everything is always perfect. God tells us in Isaiah that when we walk through fire or deep waters He will be with us. Not if, but when. When you're open and honest, other people will feel more comfortable being open and honest as well. Realize that brokenness and vulnerability are not bad words. Scary? Sure. But they are not bad. In fact, it is often in our brokenness that the love of Christ shines through the most. And then, when someone does reveal a struggle, we have to be willing to sit with them in their hurt and their pain; to be vulnerable with them.

Friend, if you're hurting, if you're struggling, you can go to someone. You don't have to hide it. You don't have to stuff it down inside until you have a happy ending to tell.  

If you or someone you know are struggling with an Eating Disorder, contact the National Eating Disorder Association Hotline at 800-931-2237. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline is 800-273-8255.
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Sunday, June 25, 2017

For Such a Time as This

For if you keep silent at this time, relief and deliverance will rise for the Jews from another place, but you and your father’s house will perish. And who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?”
~Esther 4:14

Sometimes God places us somewhere and we don't understand why. I'm not necessarily talking about a tough situation or even something hard in general. Sometimes He can place you somewhere that is a great place to be, but maybe it just seems random and you don't understand why He chose you to be there.

God taught me a lesson in patience today. So many times God has placed me in situations and pretty quickly revealed to me why He had me there. But there was a particular place where He had me, a good place, but I kind of felt like it was really random for me to be there. I didn't seem to have any connections to the situation that would cause me to be a fit and I had honestly started to wonder if maybe I'd never know why. And sometimes that's the case; sometimes we never know why He places us somewhere and we just have to trust Him.

But today, after almost a year, He placed people in my path who had been impacted by something I have walked through myself. People that I never would have encountered if God had not set me right where He needed me to be. It was one of those moments where you couldn't have planned it to be any more perfect if I had spent months planning it.

But God did perfectly orchestrate the right paths to cross. He knew before the beginning of time that our stories would meet. He knew. He always, always knows.

So friend, if you find yourself somewhere and you just aren't sure why; if you're feeling stuck and not sure why God would put you where He has you, remember this: perhaps you were created for such a time as this

He has you just where He wants you. Trust Him. Chase Him. Blaze trails.
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Thursday, June 22, 2017

Amazon Giftcard {Giveaway}

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Saturday, June 3, 2017

Finding Grace in Chocolate Cake

I love when God sends me reminders of His beautiful grace. It usually happens when I least expect it, but it always happens right when I need it. Tonight, it was in a piece of chocolate cake and vanilla ice cream.

I had about thirty minutes in my car this evening without any kiddos in the backseat fighting and I spent some time reflecting on how different my life is now from two years ago. I thought about how I was happily heading to a get together where food would be involved when two years ago I would have come up with every excuse in the book to not attend so that I wouldn't have to answer questions about why I wasn't eating. 

Instead I probably would have been keeping myself busy to avoid eating or forcing myself to run ridiculous amounts to make sure I hit an insane number of steps on my FitBit. I would've been weighing myself for the fifth or sixth time.

And as the song "Chain Breaker" by Zach Williams came on the radio, my heart was full of gratitude that that cycle is no longer what my life looks like. Praise God that He rescues. Praise God for His mercy and transforming power.

Transformed. That's the word that popped into my head when I sat looking at an empty plate earlier tonight. To be able to sit and eat a meal with precious friends and then to follow that meal with chocolate cake and ice cream may not seem like a big deal to many, but for me, it's something that I didn't think I would ever do two years ago. 

But before I ate that cake, I had a moment where the beauty of His grace overwhelmed me. Grace that has allowed me to be here. Grace that has taught me to grant myself grace to enjoy life and those precious moments. Grace that has taught me to appreciate life and the gift that it is. Grace that has taught me to cherish the people God places in my life and to see them for the treasure that they are. Grace that has taught me who I am in Christ and through that, defeated the eating disorder that ravaged so much of my life. 

Because without that grace, I wouldn't have eaten that chocolate cake. Without that grace I don't even know if I would be alive. But grace broke the chains that held me trapped in a dark corner for so long. Grace says, you were meant for so much more than this. Grace says, you never have to go back to that place. Grace says, you can't even imagine the beautiful things that are in store. Grace says, you are so much more than what has happened to you; you are more than any mistakes you've made. Grace says, you don't have to be perfect because you serve the One who is. Grace says, come as you are.

Friend, if you are stuck in your own struggle, no matter what it may be, grace says: Come to the table. Come just as you are

Let His grace rescue you; let it break those chains holding you down. Let grace allow you to run unashamedly to the cross with those broken chains lifted high. Let His grace transform you.

Because His grace, sets people free. It transforms people. It means that you never have to walk back to that storm you're in. It means that the only time you have to look back, is to marvel at how far He has brought you. 

His grace is all around me. And tonight, He reminded me of its beauty in a piece of chocolate cake.

Taste and see that the Lord is good; blessed is the one who takes refuge in Him.
~Psalm 34:8
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Monday, May 29, 2017

Hosting an Event {Tips & Tricks}

There is something so exciting about the thought of hosting a party or other event. I think that usually it's because when I am hosting, there is something to be celebrated. Whether it be a new baby on the way, an upcoming wedding, or someone's birthday, it's always exciting to gather with friends and family to celebrate.

But these events don't just happen on their own. There is quite a bit of planning and effort that go into them and if you're getting ready to host an event, I hope that you will find this post to be helpful in your efforts. 

I'm a checklist kind of girl so it's always good to start off with a checklist. Checklists are a great way to help you stay organized and to help make sure that you don't forget anything for the big event. Your checklist will probably vary depending on what kind of event you have, but there are some things they all have in common such as: a location, date & time, food, guest list, invitations, decorations, etc.

Deciding on a location is obviously a pretty big decision. You'll need to decide whether you want to host the party in a home or at another location. Wherever you decide to throw your party, you'll need to make sure that there is adequate space for the number of guests you are inviting.

I have to sit down and make a guest list and I am really not sure how you can throw a party without one. I would be the one who left somebody off if I didn't do this every time. If you're throwing a party such as a wedding shower or baby shower, you will of course have the honoree create a guest list of the people that they would like to be invited. Create a list that has the names and addresses of each person being invited that will allow you to check them off as you go when preparing invites.

Once you have a completed guest list and have an idea of how many people may be coming (oh, RSVP's are a lifesaver!), you can begin to plan the food. If there are multiple hostesses, this is a good thing for you all to sit down together to plan. The time of day that you are having the event can affect your menu. If it's during a meal time, you will want more filling food versus an event that occurs during brunch or mid-afternoon in which you would probably have more finger foods and snacks. Either way, try to work together to plan a menu that has foods that compliment each other but also provide enough variety that there is something for everyone. I always like to make sure that ice water or bottled water is available as a drink for anyone who may not enjoy the other options. It's a pretty safe option to have! Once you have a menu in place, you'll need to decide who will bring what items and make sure everyone is on the same page (have a designated person send out an email to all of the hostesses recapping what you decided on).

Now it's time to pick some invitations. For the most part I have always been a paper invitation girl, until I had two kids. Then it just seemed like I never had time to sit down and write out invitations and instead resorted to just creating an event on Facebook and inviting via that or through a text which I never really felt great about doing. This is why I am super excited to try out Paperless Post for my next event. Paperless Post has so many designs for you to choose from for every occasion. You can choose to send cards via email or send actually paper invitations. But here's the best part if you're like me and you spend all of your time chasing kiddos: you can upload an address book and have your invitation sent to each contact that you choose. So whether you want to send an electronic invite or stick to a traditional paper invite, you can do so in a few quick and easy steps without a huge time investment. Plus the designs are trendy and unique and available in a variety of styles to catch your guests' eyes. They also have photo card options which I love (I love photo invites that also create a keepsake!). 

They also have some "Just Because" cards that are super cute. I sent some of these out to try out Paperless Post for myself to see if it really is as easy as it seems. I was able to completely customize my cards with fonts and colors, right down to the pattern on the inside of the envelope. It was so easy to upload an address book and send them out and the site even offers a status in the "Post Box" that shows when recipients open their digital card. I LOVE sending cards so I will definitely be using this site for more than just invitations. 

When your event gets close, it's time to decorate. I love to browse Pinterest for different ideas for decorations and I'm usually not disappointed by the variety of ideas that are available there.

The most important part of any event is to enjoy the time with those that come to share in the gathering. Time is precious and these will be cherished memories. Enjoy some small talk over some good food, celebrate, take some photos, and don't stress if everything doesn't go exactly 100% like you planned (it rarely does but you will probably be the only one to notice). 

What advice would you add that has helped you throw a successful party?

*I received a promotional product in exchange for this post. All opinions are honest opinions of the writer. This post is in no way associated with any social media platform. 
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